“I honestly have no idea where to begin.”
That statement rings true on several levels. First, I have no idea where to begin telling this story. Perhaps I shouldn’t even tell it. There are people who read my weblog who will be surprised, maybe disillusioned. I don’t think that’s my role.
Second, I truly have no idea where to begin. I have been released from my professional engagement. I have few ties to this geographic location and now no professional ties. I can go anywhere I want.
Third, I do not even know where to begin the process of finding work again. I’m not even sure I want a job. Maybe the thing to do is strike out on my own and work for myself. I have no idea whether there is sufficient demand to keep me busy enough.
Life Changes… That phrase can be read at least two ways. Life changes. It does. The one thing about living is that it is dynamic, not static. Moments pass, turning into minutes, hours, days, weeks, ad infinitum. It is the way of this existence and nothing is constant.
Then again, there are life changes. These are also discrete points in time when big changes happen — I call them watershed events, because there is a crossing of a threshold, a topographic divide, from one state or place to another.
Sometimes, both events occur — as a result of a single event or closely-space multiple events.
I think I’ve been crossing a watershed for a couple of years now. Wife’s death was a huge change for me. It literally turned everything I worked for all these years upside down and left me bereft, not only of Wife but also life purpose. I was transformed from husband-provider to widow, abruptly.
Early this year, Young Son moved to his own digs. This is part of his growing-up experience and a necessary thing. It was also not optional. I knew that he needed this, whether he knew it or not. Now I can be proud of him again — he’s working, going to school, mostly providing for himself. These are good things and vital to the move to adulthood.
So, now I’m left with this house that is much bigger than I need. I am now self-employed and my current workload is insufficient to maintain my cash burn rate. I need to make some changes. I need to figure out what I’m to do and where I am do to it.
I have a lot to do. I’d better get after it.
2 thoughts on “Life Changes”
Think of where you and your baby would be comfortable and accepted. This is that moment when you have the privilege to decide what would make you happy for now. Time to be a little selfish. Xxoo
Thanks, Glenna… Before i can decide about where I’m headed, I think I’d better get the house sold and my things put into temporary storage. I might rent a place here in Carson City as a base of operations, or I might just change my address to Young Son’s so I have a “home” and then go roam for awhile.
I might just go see a few places to see if any of them cause a reaction in me such that I think “I might want to live here.” It would be good to have a little work as well. I’m not really ready to retire.
Thanks so much… XOXO
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